GIRLS NIGHT OUT

All dressed upGetting ready to go out..

There's nothing like being able to spend

quality time with your friends 

I had an amazing time with O..........

Fall is the time for SWEATERS

Fall is here Beauties,
This season is all about sweaters, sweaters, and more sweaters.......... If you haven't done your fall/winter shopping yet I would highly advise you all to do so! I just purchased a whole bunch of cool sweaters myself and I just love to accent my sweaters with belts, and accessories. So it doesn't matter if the sweater is Blue, Green, Purple or Orange, I need a belt and accessory that will compliment it..... I definitely can't wait to get all dressed up so I can start my Fall outfit's of the day I hope you Beauties are ready!!!!!!!!

                                                   Anyhoo here is a sweater poncho I bought from the mall and it is so soft and comfortable... I hope you all enjoy the pics, and I would love to hear what you think of my sweater.....
                                                                   XOXO BrittanyAlissa

Outfit Of The Day

I know I haven't done an outfit of the day in a while, so today I decided to just let you beauties see what I chose to put together... Instead of the usual heels I just threw on some comfortable red flats that I purchased from Nine West a few months ago, and there's nothing like adding some red lipstick to spice up your outfit.............. I hope you all enjoy the pics.
                                                               XOXO BrittanyAlissa

HOW TO KEEP YOUR WOMAN HAPPY

Hey Beauties,
                 I know its been a while since I made a post and I'm sorry for that, I promise to improve....
So the reason that I am coming to you beauties today is to address something that has been on my mind for a while. If you all recall my last entry was built around how to make and keep your man happy, well today this entry is for the MEN.. "How to keep your woman happy"!!!!!!!!

Every single man in america has a specific TASTE.. Whether it be Skinny, Large, Long hair, Short hair, African American, Caucasian, or Asian..... Every man is different in that aspect and that in itself is great. That means that every woman in this world will find a guy who will DATE her... Now with that said, although there are many types of different women and men who will love them, there are women who have a higher ranking of finding TRUE love. And the reason why that is; is just because a man will date you doesn't mean that he will MARRY you..

There are women for Right now and women for 10 years from now. And i'm going to let you in on this well hidden secret.................................. Men just like women have no clue as to what the HELL THEY WANT!!!!!!!
                                     Men claim to want women who are Pretty can Cook, Clean, be great in the bedroom and who don't nag....... But when they find those who are a good 7 out of 10 they have no idea how to hold on to them..
Men look for perfection and as we all know, there is no SUCH THING.......... If your a 5 out of 10 you get kicked to the curb because your not good enough and if your a 7 or 8 out of 10 they become intimidated and end up pushing you away anyway because of the fear that you are to good for them or better yet that because you are so wonderful you may find a man who is way better than THEM....

THIS IS ALL A BUNCH OF CRAP..........
                                                                  Men fail to realize that after all is said and done it isn't that hard to find a good woman and once you have her it is relatively easy to keep her...... And this is by SHOWING APPRECIATION.............................
The double standard of "If a woman dates to many men she's easy" is long over with and if you don't show appreciation the next man will........ Now MEN if you have a woman who is ROMANTIC, SENSUAL, A GOOD LISTENER, GOOD IN BED, CAN COOK, CLEAN, AND WHO ISN'T BAD LOOKING THEN you need to go find a box and wrap her up in it because woman like "her" aren't that easy to come by.

So here are my 10 steps to showing Appreciation & keeping her HAPPY

STEP 1: Make her breakfast in bed at least once a week
STEP 2: Run her a warm bath at least once every 2 weeks
STEP 3: FLOWERS, CARDS, CANDY AND TEDDY BEARS.
STEP 4: When she's had a long day give her a nice massage
STEP 5: LISTEN TO HER.. Woman love to talk so even if its not what you want to hear, still keep your ears open.
STEP 6: Surprise her with her favorite meal. ( Dinner)
STEP 7: POETRY..... As men you guys may not know exactly what to say all the time, so put it in writing that way she always has it with her.
STEP 8: Always keep an open mind.. I.E (doing something that it out of your comfort zone/ trying new things)
STEP 9: Find some down time to watch a movie at home and just CUDDLE ....... Most women love being
held... And watching a movie at home is free so in hard times it saves you guys money.
STEP 10: IF YOU LOVE HER then show it! Women are not mind readers its all about ACTIONS, ACTIONS, ACTIONS..............

I HOPE YOU ALL FOUND THIS HELPFUL.

                                                                                                                 BRITTANYALISSA

         

4 STEPS TO ROMANCE

In life we meet people that leave lasting impressions on our hearts

And these are the people who make us better.

Being in love doesn't always have to hurt, but when it does I want you beauties to remember that there is always light at the end of the tunnel.. I have realized that going threw hardships and crying tears only made way for smiles and new beginnings. When you feel like your being unappreciated in one relationship just keep in mind that you will be greatly appreciated in the NEXT.. Who doesn't want romance and laughter? "I know I do"!!

Friday nights will no longer be the night for sadness and feeling that "You're" not good enough
but instead will be the night for romance beyond your wildest dreams.
                        Ladies if your man is loving you and treating you with all the respect you deserve, then why not return the favor. And show him just how much you care. And remember you don't have to spend a dime to have romance in your life...You can do it at home for close to nothing and I always say "Free is the way to be", LOL But on a more serious note, when you plan special evenings at home it is WAY MORE intimate than going to a restaurant....... Anyhoo
Here are four easy FREE STEPS to do just that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

STEP 1: Make your man his favorite meal, followed by a desert that you guys can feed to one another..
STEP 2: Turn off all the lights in the house and light as many candles as you can. Get fancy with it and put them all over the place to give the illusion that you guys are on a island or better yet in an exotic place.....
STEP 3: Make a playlist of your favorite slow jams and let those songs play for the whole night..
Step 4: Lingerie is not a must but I always find that it adds a little more spice to night.......

Lastly........................ Feed each other that wonderful desert and just gaze into each others eyes.........

TRUST ME IF YOU DON'T HAVE THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE IN YOUR LIFE YET, HE WILL SOON COME..
Closing your heart off because it has been broken will only make you bitter! trust me I was there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
                                                 JUST SOME FOOD FOR THOUGHT
I hope you beauties found this helpful......
                                                          XOXO BrittanyAlissa

PHOTO SHOOT WITH ANTHONY "bETTERFLICKS"

I have mad the conscious decision to take modeling serious and to the next level, so what better way to do that than with a fresh sexy new look and a photo shoot...... I have shared 3 pics with you beauties and I hope you enjoy them. And I would love to hear feed back on what you all think.....
                                                                       XOXO BrittanyAlissa

WATER FOR CLEARER SKIN?????

Does water really help keep your skin clear? Watch the video to find out!!

Weave wrapping tutorial

A lot of my friends will really find this video helpful......

PROACTIV ROUTINE

As all my Beauties may already know, I live by Proactiv...........
I recently realized that in order for you all to connect with me I have to let you Beauties into my life in a huge huge way. So I decided to allow you guys to watch me get ready for bed.... I of course do not wake up looking flawless, it takes a lot of work... One of the key things I use for my Beauty regimen is PROACTIV!!!!!!!! And here is a brief video of exactly what I do.......
Enjoy..............................                                 XOXO BrittanyAlissa

SKIN LABORATORY 20% SALICYLIC ACID PEEL TUTORIAL

There's nothing better than using your friends as Guinea Pigs.. LOL Just kidding....
No but on a more serious note, my friends faces started to break out so I decided to give them a little treatment. I did months of research and once I was satisfied that this was a good product I then chose to purchase it on AMAZON. Its an inexpensive treatment that can be done at home and YES it does work....
Anyhoo here is a little tutorial of how to apply it.......
                                                                       XOXO BrittanyAlissa

FROM CURLY BACK TO STRAIGHT

I know that I told you beauties that I wouldn't be going back straight till next week, but there was a change in my plans once realized I wasn't able to wrap it...

Every night before I go to bed I like to wrap my hair up to insure that it will be neat and well kept in the am, and with it being so curly that was hard to do. Anyhoo here is a brief video oh how I blow dryed back to straight and I will be posting some more pics of how I style it threw out the week!

XOXO BrittanyAlissa

FROM STRAIGHT TO CURLY

So here is a video update of the hair I recently bought, I told you beauties a little about the it but its nothing like seeing it for yourselves . So I decided to wash it  earlier today and as always it curled up. Anyhoo I hope you guys enjoy the video..
                                                             XOXO BrittanyAlissa

My boyfriend does my makeup

I allowed my son to do my makeup

There is truly nothing like the love I have for my children... And I'm so blessed that I get to share this part of my life with you all.. Anyhoo my son and I were in the house bored watching some videos of different makeup artist when he stated that he wanted to apply my makeup.. Sooooooo I decided to allow him to paint me a pretty new face.. LOL I was laughing do hard.
I hope you Beauties enjoy....
                                                                 XOXO BrittanyAlissa

Dressing for Harlem's 9/11 Tribute

As we all know yesterday was 9/11 and in honor

of this memorable day the Sharpton's decided to host a small event.

There was modeling, singing, raping and dancing. All in all it turned out to be a great day. Anyhoo this is what I chose to wear I hope you beauties enjoy..

Party Party Party

I had so much fun helping my baby brother celebrate his 21st birthday. It's nothing like being able to spend time with those you love.. I hope you beauties enjoy the pics..
                                                                     XOXO BrittanyAlissa

Pocahontas.....

So after the H E double hockey sticks I went threw with the Zury Ultra Yaki I decided to INVEST in some wonderful hair that I knew would be worth the money.
I went to the BRONX HAIR SUPPLY which is a place that makes the hair  while you wait, and they also match it to fit your own natural hair color... OMG I am in love, I usual don't do really long hair but I figured what the HAY! They charge you by the ounce and color and with that you can choose which ever length you want. The hair I have in is the longest they carry 18'....
Anyhoo I hope you beauties enjoy!!
                                                         XOXO BrittanyAlissa

WAYS TO ADD EXCITEMENT TO A RELATIONSHIP

So there's nothing like a wonderful homemade breakfast 

Followed by a candle lite picnic at home

A lot of people feel that the only way to be romantic is by spending money but FYI BEAUTIES

all you need is some food and your imagination......... 

Candles add romance to any scenery and if you are to lazy to go out to the park then you can always put a sheet down and have an INDOOR picnic.. 

And if you ask me its a lot more romantic and exciting when it's just the two of you instead of a park full of strangers.

LOVE SHOULDN'T HURT

Hello Beauties,
This is not a beauty post but more of a personal one.

                  So as women we all know what heartbreak feels like, and we also know that after a terrible relationship it may be hard to love or trust someone again. Well I just want to say that I have been there! And I also know that pitting yourself and thinking "Your" the problem doesn't solve anything.
Secondly - Rebounding only makes things worse. It's never good to lead anyone on and make them feel like you care when the only reason the person  is around is to help you get over your ex.. Instead grab a pillow, cry and think of ways to make the next relationship even better. LEARN FROM THE MISTAKES THAT WERE MADE..
I know you all are probably wondering why I decided to make such a post,
and the answer is, that I've been hurt before. More than once and I beat myself up over it, thinking why me.
And after realizing that I wasn't the problem and that I deserved better
 I was able to allow Love to come into my life again...
                                                                          True love does exist beauties.........

                                                                                                                                BrittanyAlissa

EXCITED!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey Beauties,
Sorry I haven't been updating as much as I would like to, but I promise I will try to post something new everyday.
Anyhoo there has been a lot of exciting things happening, for starters I have a wedding approaching soon and I'm really excited about it. And for those of you who are wondering NO it's not my wedding! LOL
I am doing the makeup for the wedding party.. There's nothing like being able to contribute to a day that's going to be with a person for the rest of there lives.. ( SMILEY FACE ) :-)
I also went on a mini shopping spree at my Walgreens and I cant wait to share those items with you all. And there will be a HAUL COMING SOON So make sure you beauties look out for it.....
                                                                 XOXO BrittanyAlissa