I'm really into this whole anti-violence movement and I feel that we can all make a difference.
I'm am so very honored to have the privilege of being related to such a talented individual who has the same beliefs as I do.. This is a wonderful song and it doesn't get any realer than this.... STOP THE VIOLENCE.
Life is way to short and to many of our youth's are falling. Instead of becoming doc and lawyers there dying or ending up behind bars.... Become apart of this movement and make a difference.........
BrittanyAlissa
Friday, January 13, 2012
GOD NOT GUNS Movement
There have been a number of deaths in my hometown Harlem, so Miss Dy Sass decided that it was time to make a change..
The slogan is "God Over Gun's".. And honestly if we all tried a little harder to focus our negative energy on God instead of violence then the death rate can potentially go down...
There are t-shirts being sold at only $10 to help this movement turn into a world wide phenomenon..Here is the link so you can help
www.blogbydy.blogspot.com
Wednesday, January 4, 2012
Saturday, December 31, 2011
HAPPY NEW YEARS 2012
Hey Beauties,
I just want to take the time to personally wish all of you a happy and prosperous New Year... May this year be a memorable one..
Thursday, December 29, 2011
Saturday, December 24, 2011
CHRISTMAS EVE
I really enjoyed this Christmas eve.. It was a night to remember, I was treated to an upscale 5 star restaurant as an early Christmas gift and I have to say that this place was amazing.. Anyway here are some pics of my outfit of the night. I hope you all enjoy
Saturday, December 17, 2011
FAMILY CHRISTMAS PICTURES..
Hey Beauties,
I love the holiday's, especially Christmas and new years. I always felt that Christmas was the beautiful ending to a wonderful/stressful year and then in the following week we all get to start fresh with a brand new year.. Well this year I decided that it would be a great idea for my children and I to take professional pictures, to put in some Christmas cards. It was such a fun fun day. Watching my babies get all dressed up made me realize that
to be a mom is the greatest gift that any women could ever get for Christmas.
I love the holiday's, especially Christmas and new years. I always felt that Christmas was the beautiful ending to a wonderful/stressful year and then in the following week we all get to start fresh with a brand new year.. Well this year I decided that it would be a great idea for my children and I to take professional pictures, to put in some Christmas cards. It was such a fun fun day. Watching my babies get all dressed up made me realize that
to be a mom is the greatest gift that any women could ever get for Christmas.
Happy Holiday's
from our family to yours....
ICE SKATING IN CENTRAL PARK
Hey Beauties,
Here are a few pics from my little ice skating date the other day. Hope you all enjoy
Wednesday, December 7, 2011
SOOTHHING A BROKEN HEART...............
Hey Beauties,
I took a long break from writing about relationships, but I'M BACK...........
It seems like taboo to assume that a relationship will last "FOREVER" but that doesn't stop us from still hoping and dreaming for it. Boy meets girl and they fall forever in love, RIGHT?????
Mostly all of the romantic movies we watch end up the same way, and as females we start to believe that maybe our prince charming is waiting out there to wisp us away. But what happens when that LOve goes wrong? How do you pick up the pieces?? How do you move forward??
I am at a funny place in my life right now and it just so happens that a few of my close friends are also in the same boat..
So here is a list that I made of all the little things that may be a flashlight that HEARTBREAK is around the corner. And I also made a list of ways/things that one can do to sooth that broken heart..
FLASHLIGHT SIGNS
#1: Going on more than 3 dates and the person refuses to even pay the tip...
This maybe a sign that the person is only with you because of what you can do for them, and there's a strong possibility that this person may not care about you the same way that you care about them. So continuing this relationship under false pretenses instead of knowing where you stand may lead to HEARTBREAK.
#2: Having someone that cares more about spending time with friends than with you......
This maybe a sign that the person you are with isn't ready to be in a committed relationship, it isn't realistic to see or be with the person your with every single day. But if you only see that person once a week then that maybe a flashlight sign that HEARTBREAK is down the road..
#3: Feeling like the things you do are never good enough............
If your ever in a situation where you feel like your being taking for granted then I would advise you to run for the hills because these situations hardly ever turn out good.... If your with someone who always tells you what your doing wrong and never acknowledges anything that you do right then this is a problem. Maybe just maybe this person isn't happy with themselves so they need to bring you down to where they are in-order for them to feel better. If you've had several talks about this specific topic; and nothing changes then HEARTBREAK MAYBE HEADED YOUR WAY...
#4: Getting back with an ex who has already broken your heart..... This one means a lot to me!!!!!!!
If you've recently broken up with an ex then you know how hard it is to stay away, actually it seems like its almost impossible. So A LOT of us chose to just go back hoping and praying that things will get better. But the truth of the matter is, that if both persons aren't ready for change then things will never turn out right.. In relationships there cant be one who's ready to change and one who feels that they don't have to. Trust me; in situations like this someone always ALWAYS gets hurt.. Don't get me wrong, in some cases this does work out!!!! But you both have to be ready to leave the past in the past and move forward with a clean slate... If you feel that your the only person who's ready to change then RUUUUUUUUUUUUNNNNNNN
Honey HEARTBREAK is knocking hard at your door.....
#5: The Romance is missing..............
Sweeties if your in a relationship that is lacking Romance & you feel that this is what you need in-order to feel loved, then LEAVE......... It's that plain and simple. You will never be happy........... You'll always be waiting for that person to change, but the truth is; if you've given that person more than 2 chances to get it together, then likely hood of them changing are slim. And as long as you hold on to hope YOU WILL GET YOUR HEARTBROKEN.
#6: Cheating.......
ENOUGH SAID... If you know that your being cheated on and you stay then i'm sorry but your a fool to keep that door open...... Once a cheater always a cheater. If you forgave them the 1st time then the 2nd time is coming right up....... HEARTBREAK HEARTBREAK HEARTBREAK.......
#7: Different dreams and goals
Well this one is a bit tricky.. Because if you all are in different places it doesn't necessarily mean that your going to get hurt.. But if you all start fighting and having arguments over it then maybe its time to walk away.. Its ok to have separate dreams ( AND I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT HUSTLING IN THE STREETS), but when your in a relationship and the dreams are realistic then there should be some type of compromise, especially if you see yourself being with that someone for the rest of your life... Now if that person isn't taking into consideration that your dreams matter too then reach out for the handle on that door and walk away. Because you just might end up with your HEARTBROKEN....
I SAVED THE BEST FOR LAST
#8: CHILDREN................................................
If you are a parent and the person your with does not except your children then THEY HAVE TO GO
As a parent dating can be a little tricky.. Not everyone is ready for parenthood, but when you chose to start dating you have to make sure that the person you trying to build a relationship with is suitable to be around your children..And what also makes this tricky is the fact that things maybe good in the beginning and may turn around for the worst. Now your child/children are attached to this individual and their feelings now are also on the line.. So If you choose to be with someone who doesn't except YOU for being a parent, and you stay anyway. Then you & the little ones will probably end up with your HEART'sBROKEN
MY LIST FOR SOOTHING A BROKEN
#1: Hold your pillow tight and cry.. Yes I said CRY...... It's ok to feel hurt and its ok to shed some tears over it. We are only human so this is to be expected...
#2: After your breakup take some time to get to know "YOU" again.. Start doing things that make you happy
#3: Stay busy... As long as you preoccupied, then you don't have time to think about everything that
happened.
#4: Take a warm bath with some candles near by. THIS ALWAYS HELPS FOR ME
#5: Call some friends over, and even if they can't come over at least you get to speak to some who's close to you...
AND IF ALL ELSE FAILS
Just simply keep in mind that "TIME HEALS ALL WOUND" and things will get better..........
I took a long break from writing about relationships, but I'M BACK...........
It seems like taboo to assume that a relationship will last "FOREVER" but that doesn't stop us from still hoping and dreaming for it. Boy meets girl and they fall forever in love, RIGHT?????
Mostly all of the romantic movies we watch end up the same way, and as females we start to believe that maybe our prince charming is waiting out there to wisp us away. But what happens when that LOve goes wrong? How do you pick up the pieces?? How do you move forward??
I am at a funny place in my life right now and it just so happens that a few of my close friends are also in the same boat..
So here is a list that I made of all the little things that may be a flashlight that HEARTBREAK is around the corner. And I also made a list of ways/things that one can do to sooth that broken heart..
FLASHLIGHT SIGNS
#1: Going on more than 3 dates and the person refuses to even pay the tip...
This maybe a sign that the person is only with you because of what you can do for them, and there's a strong possibility that this person may not care about you the same way that you care about them. So continuing this relationship under false pretenses instead of knowing where you stand may lead to HEARTBREAK.
#2: Having someone that cares more about spending time with friends than with you......
This maybe a sign that the person you are with isn't ready to be in a committed relationship, it isn't realistic to see or be with the person your with every single day. But if you only see that person once a week then that maybe a flashlight sign that HEARTBREAK is down the road..
#3: Feeling like the things you do are never good enough............
If your ever in a situation where you feel like your being taking for granted then I would advise you to run for the hills because these situations hardly ever turn out good.... If your with someone who always tells you what your doing wrong and never acknowledges anything that you do right then this is a problem. Maybe just maybe this person isn't happy with themselves so they need to bring you down to where they are in-order for them to feel better. If you've had several talks about this specific topic; and nothing changes then HEARTBREAK MAYBE HEADED YOUR WAY...
#4: Getting back with an ex who has already broken your heart..... This one means a lot to me!!!!!!!
If you've recently broken up with an ex then you know how hard it is to stay away, actually it seems like its almost impossible. So A LOT of us chose to just go back hoping and praying that things will get better. But the truth of the matter is, that if both persons aren't ready for change then things will never turn out right.. In relationships there cant be one who's ready to change and one who feels that they don't have to. Trust me; in situations like this someone always ALWAYS gets hurt.. Don't get me wrong, in some cases this does work out!!!! But you both have to be ready to leave the past in the past and move forward with a clean slate... If you feel that your the only person who's ready to change then RUUUUUUUUUUUUNNNNNNN
Honey HEARTBREAK is knocking hard at your door.....
#5: The Romance is missing..............
Sweeties if your in a relationship that is lacking Romance & you feel that this is what you need in-order to feel loved, then LEAVE......... It's that plain and simple. You will never be happy........... You'll always be waiting for that person to change, but the truth is; if you've given that person more than 2 chances to get it together, then likely hood of them changing are slim. And as long as you hold on to hope YOU WILL GET YOUR HEARTBROKEN.
#6: Cheating.......
ENOUGH SAID... If you know that your being cheated on and you stay then i'm sorry but your a fool to keep that door open...... Once a cheater always a cheater. If you forgave them the 1st time then the 2nd time is coming right up....... HEARTBREAK HEARTBREAK HEARTBREAK.......
#7: Different dreams and goals
Well this one is a bit tricky.. Because if you all are in different places it doesn't necessarily mean that your going to get hurt.. But if you all start fighting and having arguments over it then maybe its time to walk away.. Its ok to have separate dreams ( AND I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT HUSTLING IN THE STREETS), but when your in a relationship and the dreams are realistic then there should be some type of compromise, especially if you see yourself being with that someone for the rest of your life... Now if that person isn't taking into consideration that your dreams matter too then reach out for the handle on that door and walk away. Because you just might end up with your HEARTBROKEN....
I SAVED THE BEST FOR LAST
#8: CHILDREN................................................
If you are a parent and the person your with does not except your children then THEY HAVE TO GO
As a parent dating can be a little tricky.. Not everyone is ready for parenthood, but when you chose to start dating you have to make sure that the person you trying to build a relationship with is suitable to be around your children..And what also makes this tricky is the fact that things maybe good in the beginning and may turn around for the worst. Now your child/children are attached to this individual and their feelings now are also on the line.. So If you choose to be with someone who doesn't except YOU for being a parent, and you stay anyway. Then you & the little ones will probably end up with your HEART'sBROKEN
MY LIST FOR SOOTHING A BROKEN
#1: Hold your pillow tight and cry.. Yes I said CRY...... It's ok to feel hurt and its ok to shed some tears over it. We are only human so this is to be expected...
#2: After your breakup take some time to get to know "YOU" again.. Start doing things that make you happy
#3: Stay busy... As long as you preoccupied, then you don't have time to think about everything that
happened.
#4: Take a warm bath with some candles near by. THIS ALWAYS HELPS FOR ME
#5: Call some friends over, and even if they can't come over at least you get to speak to some who's close to you...
AND IF ALL ELSE FAILS
Just simply keep in mind that "TIME HEALS ALL WOUND" and things will get better..........
I hope you all found this helpful...
XOXO BrittanyAlissa
Sunday, December 4, 2011
Net weave with middle part
Hey Beauties,
So my sister is getting ready to take her senior pictures and she asked me to sew in a full head weave, so i did a technique that I've grown to love and that is to sew the weave on to a net. Her hair came out just the way she wanted and I'm happy that I could help contribute to such an important time in her life. Anyhoo here is the video from beginning to end. Enjoy Beauties. XOXO BrittanyAlissa
So my sister is getting ready to take her senior pictures and she asked me to sew in a full head weave, so i did a technique that I've grown to love and that is to sew the weave on to a net. Her hair came out just the way she wanted and I'm happy that I could help contribute to such an important time in her life. Anyhoo here is the video from beginning to end. Enjoy Beauties. XOXO BrittanyAlissa
Friday, November 25, 2011
A THANKSGIVING TO REMEMBER
Hey Beauties,
I hope everyone enjoyed their holiday, there is nothing like being able to spend time with the ones you love. Not everyone is lucky enough to be able to spend everyday with family and friends. But I know the holiday's are definitely the time that people reconnect...
Here are a few pics of my family and friends, I hope you all enjoy.
XOXO BrittanyAlissa.............
I hope everyone enjoyed their holiday, there is nothing like being able to spend time with the ones you love. Not everyone is lucky enough to be able to spend everyday with family and friends. But I know the holiday's are definitely the time that people reconnect...
XOXO BrittanyAlissa.............
Wednesday, November 23, 2011
TWILIGHT Breaking Dawn Pt1
Hey Beauties,
So last Friday was such a wonderful night, for those of you who are Twihard fans know why. It has been a whole year since the last Twilight movie and boy of boy was this day highly anticipated. Anyhoo for those of you who didn't see the movie, I would advise you all to do so...This one was by far the greatest one to date..... Anyway here is a few pics of my movie night outfit.. Enjoy!
Saturday, November 12, 2011
Friday Night Outfit
I think I was the only person in the entire bowling alley wearing heels.. LOL
Anyhoo I hope you all enjoy the pics!
Wednesday, November 9, 2011
HOW DO YOU KNOW WHEN TO WALK AWAY?
Hey Beauties,
There's a topic on my mind that needs to be addressed before I go to bed....
The topic is knowing when to walk away from a failed relationship...........
You Beauties hear me preach on a regular basis on how to make your significant other happy and how to spice up your relationships, but what do you do when there is nothing left to spice up?
I know from my own experience that I didn't realize that it was over until my heart was completely broken and I was left with nothing but my tears, but there has to be a better way RIGHT? There has to be a way to be able to pin point when it's officially time to walk away before your heart is broken into a million pieces.
I sat and thought about this question for days and I came up with 10 tips that may help to determine if you are in a failing relationship.....
TIP 1- You start arguing over the little things that make absolutely no sense
TIP 2- The sex becomes none existent
TIP 3- You guys don't sleep in the same room anymore
TIP 4- The trust is completely gone
TIP 5- You start blaming yourself for everything that's going wrong
TIP 6- You stay only because you feel you can't do any better
TIP 7- You can't find one reason why you and this person should be together
TIP 8- Tears become apart of your ever day life
TIP 9- Physical/emotion abuse is within that relationship
TIP 10- You love that person more than you do yourself......( You should never love anyone more than yourself, because if you don't love "You" then how can you expect anyone else to )............
THIS IS MY OWN PERSONAL OPINION AND I HOPE I DID'NT OFFEND ANYONE!
XOXO BrittanyAlissa
There's a topic on my mind that needs to be addressed before I go to bed....
The topic is knowing when to walk away from a failed relationship...........
You Beauties hear me preach on a regular basis on how to make your significant other happy and how to spice up your relationships, but what do you do when there is nothing left to spice up?
I know from my own experience that I didn't realize that it was over until my heart was completely broken and I was left with nothing but my tears, but there has to be a better way RIGHT? There has to be a way to be able to pin point when it's officially time to walk away before your heart is broken into a million pieces.
I sat and thought about this question for days and I came up with 10 tips that may help to determine if you are in a failing relationship.....
TIP 1- You start arguing over the little things that make absolutely no sense
TIP 2- The sex becomes none existent
TIP 3- You guys don't sleep in the same room anymore
TIP 4- The trust is completely gone
TIP 5- You start blaming yourself for everything that's going wrong
TIP 6- You stay only because you feel you can't do any better
TIP 7- You can't find one reason why you and this person should be together
TIP 8- Tears become apart of your ever day life
TIP 9- Physical/emotion abuse is within that relationship
TIP 10- You love that person more than you do yourself......( You should never love anyone more than yourself, because if you don't love "You" then how can you expect anyone else to )............
THIS IS MY OWN PERSONAL OPINION AND I HOPE I DID'NT OFFEND ANYONE!
XOXO BrittanyAlissaMonday, November 7, 2011
DINNER FOR 2
Hello Beauties,
So me being the hopeless romantic that I am I decided to share with you all an intimate dinner that I had the other night..... I post and post AND POST about preparing dinner with or for your significant others and this is me leading by example..
Instead of going out in this cold frigid weather how about staying in with the candles lite and the soft r&b playing. The most intimate times are the ones spent gazing into each others eyes. (MY PERSONAL OPINION)
But what I love more is getting to eat it with the person I love!!
So me being the hopeless romantic that I am I decided to share with you all an intimate dinner that I had the other night..... I post and post AND POST about preparing dinner with or for your significant others and this is me leading by example..
Instead of going out in this cold frigid weather how about staying in with the candles lite and the soft r&b playing. The most intimate times are the ones spent gazing into each others eyes. (MY PERSONAL OPINION)
Yummy........ I just love Chicken Penne
But what I love more is getting to eat it with the person I love!!XOXOBrittanyAlissa
Friday, November 4, 2011
Thursday, November 3, 2011
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
OUTFIT OF THE DAY
Hey Beauties,
Today is my 1st day doing an actual video for my OOTD I hope you all enjoy it, And there will be many more OOTD videos to come..............
XOXO BrittanyAlissa
Today is my 1st day doing an actual video for my OOTD I hope you all enjoy it, And there will be many more OOTD videos to come..............
XOXO BrittanyAlissa
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