YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE UNTIL ITS GONE

Hey Beauties,
                      So this post is something that was on my mind and I felt that If I didn't address it my head would explode............. For anyone who knows me personally, they know that I am a hopeless romantic. I live, eat sleep, and breathe romance..... Some would say that I live in a fairytale book! lol
             Now with that being said there are those selected few people out there in the world who are just like me and then there are those who can do without the hoopla of romance, and honestly there's nothing wrong with being on either end of the spectrum.. The problem begins when you are on either side and then you meet that person who is your total opposite its like NOW WHAT?????????????
How can you show your appreciation when you've never experienced romance? And how can you deal if you've experienced romance and now your with someone who doesn't have a romantic gene in their body? The saying opposites attract is a true statement, but you must understand that when you meet your opposite it's not 100% that you can deal with their ways.........
I've been in a relationship where the guy I was seeing had no idea what to do with all the romance I was giving and honestly it caused a rift in our relationship........... I felt unappreciated and he had no idea how to show appreciation for something that he had NEVER experienced........BIG HUGE ISSUE
                                                         
                                                      NOW IT GETS INTERESTING

Most people envision what they want there lives to be. Whether it be THE PERFECT MAN/WOMEN, A FAMILY, A CAREER, OR A LIFE OF BEING SINGLE, we all dream dreams................. QUESTION :Now what do you do when you find the person who is everything you've been looking for????????????
If you ask this question to about 50 people i'm quite sure that about 45 of them will give you the same answer...
                             ANSWER : I WILL LOVE AND APPRECIATE THAT PERSON and
THAT ANSWER IS TOTALLY B.S.............
So many people out here swear that they are 100% certain on what they want out of life but when you hand it to them on a silver platter they let it slip away. That's when we are stuck with the harsh reality of losing something that was great and facing the logic of NOT KNOWING WHAT YOU HAVE UNTIL IT'S GONE! Why must we lose something great to realize that what we had was great in the 1st place????
                         Women : If you have a man who is willing to accept you on your good days, bad hair days, that time of the month, and all those other moody times that women go threw. And to put the icing on the cake he buys you flowers, cooks you dinner, gives massages and helps you out financially .......Then why not realize it,except it and make sure we keep him!
                                                                AND
                         Men : If you have a women who is well rounded, excepts you for all the silly things men tend to do, she cooks for you, does your laundry, is romantic, gets along with you family, financially stable and loves you for exactly who you are...... Then why not realize it, except it, and make sure you hold on to her....

PEOPLE tend to pin point one thing that isn't right with a person, acknowledging it as a deal breaker and overlooking the fact the HE OR SHE still has other qualities to consider....... Then most of us go searching for someone else who doesn't have that "PROBLEM" and then we end up running into a whole nother issue.....
                                                     THE ART OF RELATIONSHIPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Maybe instead of over analyzing this "person" we should just look at the person for who they really are... There is absolutely no such thing as a perfect person and the sooner we realize this the better. 
I know that I've been on that short end of the stick where I was stuck having to repeat those dreadful words of "I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT I HAD UNTIL IT WAS TO LATE" and I honestly want to avoid having to repeat them again......
So Beauties, Guys and Girls be appreciative of what you have and i'm sure you and that person will go far....
                          KNOW WHAT AND WHO YOU HAVE BEFORE IT'S TO LATE
Because we don't always get a second chance...........

                                                                                              XOXO BrittanyAlissa

DIVA MAKEOVER TUTORIAL

Here is the video as promised

THIS PAST FRIDAY NIGHT

Black and white v neck jumper

With Kiss me choker

 gold and black ban gals........

And my favorite Leopard print pumps...........

I really enjoyed myself this weekend and I can't wait to do it all again next "FRIDAY NIGHT"

                                                                                                                 XOXO BrittanyAlissa

MAKE OVER SUCCESS

My bestfriend was a bit of a tomboy, so I decided to give her a little diva make over..... She with so happy with the way that everything turned out that I officially think she has converted into the DIVA world...... LOL The video of how I transformed her will be posted later today.............

Olive oil's Edge Control

So It's been a week since I did my hair and as promised here is a one week update on the Olive oil's Edge control hair gel...........
I really like this product, ALLLOOOOOTTTTTTT! Being that I wear weave often its very hard to keep my edges looking up to par so I did some homework and came across this this product. I seen that it was popular in a lot of the hair magazines so I decided to go ahead and give it a try......
                                                                I am 100% satisfied.......

2012 IS LOOKING BRIGHT

Hello Beauties,
                I am so very very excited to state that I will be taking my modeling to the next level.. This basically means more photo shoots, more trips and lots and lots of pics..... I recently found a manager who has enough faith in me to get me to where I need to be. My goal is to be on the cover of a tattoo magazine where I feel I can let my true self show............ I wont stop till I'm at the top!
                          REACH FOR THE MOON AND LAND ON THE STARS!
                                                                                                                        XOXO BittanyAlissa

Fresh Weave

GIRLS NIGHT OUT

All dressed upGetting ready to go out..

There's nothing like being able to spend

quality time with your friends 

I had an amazing time with O..........

Fall is the time for SWEATERS

Fall is here Beauties,
This season is all about sweaters, sweaters, and more sweaters.......... If you haven't done your fall/winter shopping yet I would highly advise you all to do so! I just purchased a whole bunch of cool sweaters myself and I just love to accent my sweaters with belts, and accessories. So it doesn't matter if the sweater is Blue, Green, Purple or Orange, I need a belt and accessory that will compliment it..... I definitely can't wait to get all dressed up so I can start my Fall outfit's of the day I hope you Beauties are ready!!!!!!!!

                                                   Anyhoo here is a sweater poncho I bought from the mall and it is so soft and comfortable... I hope you all enjoy the pics, and I would love to hear what you think of my sweater.....
                                                                   XOXO BrittanyAlissa

Outfit Of The Day

I know I haven't done an outfit of the day in a while, so today I decided to just let you beauties see what I chose to put together... Instead of the usual heels I just threw on some comfortable red flats that I purchased from Nine West a few months ago, and there's nothing like adding some red lipstick to spice up your outfit.............. I hope you all enjoy the pics.
                                                               XOXO BrittanyAlissa

HOW TO KEEP YOUR WOMAN HAPPY

Hey Beauties,
                 I know its been a while since I made a post and I'm sorry for that, I promise to improve....
So the reason that I am coming to you beauties today is to address something that has been on my mind for a while. If you all recall my last entry was built around how to make and keep your man happy, well today this entry is for the MEN.. "How to keep your woman happy"!!!!!!!!

Every single man in america has a specific TASTE.. Whether it be Skinny, Large, Long hair, Short hair, African American, Caucasian, or Asian..... Every man is different in that aspect and that in itself is great. That means that every woman in this world will find a guy who will DATE her... Now with that said, although there are many types of different women and men who will love them, there are women who have a higher ranking of finding TRUE love. And the reason why that is; is just because a man will date you doesn't mean that he will MARRY you..

There are women for Right now and women for 10 years from now. And i'm going to let you in on this well hidden secret.................................. Men just like women have no clue as to what the HELL THEY WANT!!!!!!!
                                     Men claim to want women who are Pretty can Cook, Clean, be great in the bedroom and who don't nag....... But when they find those who are a good 7 out of 10 they have no idea how to hold on to them..
Men look for perfection and as we all know, there is no SUCH THING.......... If your a 5 out of 10 you get kicked to the curb because your not good enough and if your a 7 or 8 out of 10 they become intimidated and end up pushing you away anyway because of the fear that you are to good for them or better yet that because you are so wonderful you may find a man who is way better than THEM....

THIS IS ALL A BUNCH OF CRAP..........
                                                                  Men fail to realize that after all is said and done it isn't that hard to find a good woman and once you have her it is relatively easy to keep her...... And this is by SHOWING APPRECIATION.............................
The double standard of "If a woman dates to many men she's easy" is long over with and if you don't show appreciation the next man will........ Now MEN if you have a woman who is ROMANTIC, SENSUAL, A GOOD LISTENER, GOOD IN BED, CAN COOK, CLEAN, AND WHO ISN'T BAD LOOKING THEN you need to go find a box and wrap her up in it because woman like "her" aren't that easy to come by.

So here are my 10 steps to showing Appreciation & keeping her HAPPY

STEP 1: Make her breakfast in bed at least once a week
STEP 2: Run her a warm bath at least once every 2 weeks
STEP 3: FLOWERS, CARDS, CANDY AND TEDDY BEARS.
STEP 4: When she's had a long day give her a nice massage
STEP 5: LISTEN TO HER.. Woman love to talk so even if its not what you want to hear, still keep your ears open.
STEP 6: Surprise her with her favorite meal. ( Dinner)
STEP 7: POETRY..... As men you guys may not know exactly what to say all the time, so put it in writing that way she always has it with her.
STEP 8: Always keep an open mind.. I.E (doing something that it out of your comfort zone/ trying new things)
STEP 9: Find some down time to watch a movie at home and just CUDDLE ....... Most women love being
held... And watching a movie at home is free so in hard times it saves you guys money.
STEP 10: IF YOU LOVE HER then show it! Women are not mind readers its all about ACTIONS, ACTIONS, ACTIONS..............

I HOPE YOU ALL FOUND THIS HELPFUL.

                                                                                                                 BRITTANYALISSA

         

4 STEPS TO ROMANCE

In life we meet people that leave lasting impressions on our hearts

And these are the people who make us better.

Being in love doesn't always have to hurt, but when it does I want you beauties to remember that there is always light at the end of the tunnel.. I have realized that going threw hardships and crying tears only made way for smiles and new beginnings. When you feel like your being unappreciated in one relationship just keep in mind that you will be greatly appreciated in the NEXT.. Who doesn't want romance and laughter? "I know I do"!!

Friday nights will no longer be the night for sadness and feeling that "You're" not good enough
but instead will be the night for romance beyond your wildest dreams.
                        Ladies if your man is loving you and treating you with all the respect you deserve, then why not return the favor. And show him just how much you care. And remember you don't have to spend a dime to have romance in your life...You can do it at home for close to nothing and I always say "Free is the way to be", LOL But on a more serious note, when you plan special evenings at home it is WAY MORE intimate than going to a restaurant....... Anyhoo
Here are four easy FREE STEPS to do just that!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

STEP 1: Make your man his favorite meal, followed by a desert that you guys can feed to one another..
STEP 2: Turn off all the lights in the house and light as many candles as you can. Get fancy with it and put them all over the place to give the illusion that you guys are on a island or better yet in an exotic place.....
STEP 3: Make a playlist of your favorite slow jams and let those songs play for the whole night..
Step 4: Lingerie is not a must but I always find that it adds a little more spice to night.......

Lastly........................ Feed each other that wonderful desert and just gaze into each others eyes.........

TRUST ME IF YOU DON'T HAVE THAT SPECIAL SOMEONE IN YOUR LIFE YET, HE WILL SOON COME..
Closing your heart off because it has been broken will only make you bitter! trust me I was there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
                                                 JUST SOME FOOD FOR THOUGHT
I hope you beauties found this helpful......
                                                          XOXO BrittanyAlissa

PHOTO SHOOT WITH ANTHONY "bETTERFLICKS"

I have mad the conscious decision to take modeling serious and to the next level, so what better way to do that than with a fresh sexy new look and a photo shoot...... I have shared 3 pics with you beauties and I hope you enjoy them. And I would love to hear feed back on what you all think.....
                                                                       XOXO BrittanyAlissa

WATER FOR CLEARER SKIN?????

Does water really help keep your skin clear? Watch the video to find out!!

Weave wrapping tutorial

A lot of my friends will really find this video helpful......

PROACTIV ROUTINE

As all my Beauties may already know, I live by Proactiv...........
I recently realized that in order for you all to connect with me I have to let you Beauties into my life in a huge huge way. So I decided to allow you guys to watch me get ready for bed.... I of course do not wake up looking flawless, it takes a lot of work... One of the key things I use for my Beauty regimen is PROACTIV!!!!!!!! And here is a brief video of exactly what I do.......
Enjoy..............................                                 XOXO BrittanyAlissa

SKIN LABORATORY 20% SALICYLIC ACID PEEL TUTORIAL

There's nothing better than using your friends as Guinea Pigs.. LOL Just kidding....
No but on a more serious note, my friends faces started to break out so I decided to give them a little treatment. I did months of research and once I was satisfied that this was a good product I then chose to purchase it on AMAZON. Its an inexpensive treatment that can be done at home and YES it does work....
Anyhoo here is a little tutorial of how to apply it.......
                                                                       XOXO BrittanyAlissa

FROM CURLY BACK TO STRAIGHT

I know that I told you beauties that I wouldn't be going back straight till next week, but there was a change in my plans once realized I wasn't able to wrap it...

Every night before I go to bed I like to wrap my hair up to insure that it will be neat and well kept in the am, and with it being so curly that was hard to do. Anyhoo here is a brief video oh how I blow dryed back to straight and I will be posting some more pics of how I style it threw out the week!

XOXO BrittanyAlissa

FROM STRAIGHT TO CURLY

So here is a video update of the hair I recently bought, I told you beauties a little about the it but its nothing like seeing it for yourselves . So I decided to wash it  earlier today and as always it curled up. Anyhoo I hope you guys enjoy the video..
                                                             XOXO BrittanyAlissa

My boyfriend does my makeup