Life has happened and yet again I have neglected the one place that allows all else to fade away. With marriage and children sometimes it becomes hard to get a moment to myself and that means my moments for writing never come. So now that I got that stuff off my chest I can get to what this post is truly about...................................😃
In a world filled with chaos we must always make time for love, time for joy, and moments of pure utter happiness. And if you are a true AAB1on1 reader then you know that Love and Romance are some of the things that I hold near and dear to my heart. So I'm going to do you all a favor and share 5 things for men and 5 for women that are sure to remind your significant others that they are important and allow you the ability to put and keep a smile on their faces. Thank Me Later
5 Things That Are Sure To Make A Woman Smile
#1. Bubble baths are a woman's best friend. I don't care if she's a stay at home mom or works a 9-5. Every woman needs a de-stresser. It is not only a free gesture, but a romantic one as well.
#2. Massages are a nice simple way to say "hey baby I know you've had a long day" without actually uttering the words. I haven't met a women yet who can't or doesn't enjoy a massage.
#3. A surprise dinner at home can definitely put a smile on your S.O's face. Theres nothing like having a man cook for you, or going through the trouble of pretending. It is both romantic and endearing.
#4. Flowers, Cards & Candy are always sure ways to make a woman smile. But in 2016 we have to be a little innovative. How about writing a hand written letter/note or learning how to make a sweet treat from scratch. (Just a thought) either way your efforts will likely be appreciated.
#5. Allow her to vent. Sometimes in relationships we feel that if we say to much our partners will be turned off and won't bother listening. Well I don't know a woman who isn't a chatter box. Therefore she may just want to get some things off her chest that may have absolutely nothing to do with you. So just listen! And even if it is about you, talking to out may make the world of difference.
5 Things That Are Sure To Make A Guy Smile
#1. Ok so this may be repetitive but "Bubble baths" also make men smile. Women sometimes forget that men need a little love and affection too. After a long day at the office or working that hard strenuous job, he might need a bath to help him settle down. I am a strong believer in reciprocation. It is so very important.
#2. Pedicures.. Yup I said it. Get a bucket from around the house (everyone should have one) of your pedicure machine and allow your man to soak his feet. Then clip his toe nails, polish with clear polish, and give him the best foot massage your little hands can muster up.. Guys love to be pampered. And this is a great way to do just that.
#3. Get on your hands and knees and give him a B.J.. Even if he's not a big fan of this, the surprise factor will definitely make him smile.. ( Women it doesn't have to be a holiday for you to slob on him a little bit) 😒 YES Im talking to you!!
#4. Make his favorite meal.. UMM this one should be no brainer but some of you ladies have lost sight of it. The best way to a mans heart is through his stomach but when you get wrapped up in the routine of everyday life, food and dishes become repetitive. So look online, and find something new or make his favorite steak and potatoes.. Then serve him you for desert!! (You'll Thank me later)
#5. ASK HIM WHAT HE WANTS..... Oh so I bet none of you seen this one coming... As women we FORGET that most of our guys will tell us what will put a smile on their faces. All we have to do is ask! Theres nothing wrong with giving in to 100% of his needs every now and then. Because I'll be honest, sometimes they don't want to hear our rants, and would much rather sit in front of sports center.. The problem is that they feel they will hurt our feelings if they're honest about it. "Hey Honey what can I do to service you, to help you unwind, to help you smile today?" Try it and see if you don't get the biggest smile...
One important thing about this post is that all the things are FREE!
This is because love shouldn't come with a price tag!
Of course trinkets and gifts are great too, but it shouldn't be about just that.. What if you don't have the funds? Trust me its about the small things..
I hope you all found this post helpful.....
