So this post is something that was on my mind and I felt that If I didn't address it my head would explode............. For anyone who knows me personally, they know that I am a hopeless romantic. I live, eat sleep, and breathe romance..... Some would say that I live in a fairytale book! lol
Now with that being said there are those selected few people out there in the world who are just like me and then there are those who can do without the hoopla of romance, and honestly there's nothing wrong with being on either end of the spectrum.. The problem begins when you are on either side and then you meet that person who is your total opposite its like NOW WHAT?????????????
How can you show your appreciation when you've never experienced romance? And how can you deal if you've experienced romance and now your with someone who doesn't have a romantic gene in their body? The saying opposites attract is a true statement, but you must understand that when you meet your opposite it's not 100% that you can deal with their ways.........
I've been in a relationship where the guy I was seeing had no idea what to do with all the romance I was giving and honestly it caused a rift in our relationship........... I felt unappreciated and he had no idea how to show appreciation for something that he had NEVER experienced........BIG HUGE ISSUE
NOW IT GETS INTERESTING
Most people envision what they want there lives to be. Whether it be THE PERFECT MAN/WOMEN, A FAMILY, A CAREER, OR A LIFE OF BEING SINGLE, we all dream dreams................. QUESTION :Now what do you do when you find the person who is everything you've been looking for????????????
If you ask this question to about 50 people i'm quite sure that about 45 of them will give you the same answer...
ANSWER : I WILL LOVE AND APPRECIATE THAT PERSON and
THAT ANSWER IS TOTALLY B.S.............
So many people out here swear that they are 100% certain on what they want out of life but when you hand it to them on a silver platter they let it slip away. That's when we are stuck with the harsh reality of losing something that was great and facing the logic of NOT KNOWING WHAT YOU HAVE UNTIL IT'S GONE! Why must we lose something great to realize that what we had was great in the 1st place????
Women : If you have a man who is willing to accept you on your good days, bad hair days, that time of the month, and all those other moody times that women go threw. And to put the icing on the cake he buys you flowers, cooks you dinner, gives massages and helps you out financially .......Then why not realize it,except it and make sure we keep him!
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Men : If you have a women who is well rounded, excepts you for all the silly things men tend to do, she cooks for you, does your laundry, is romantic, gets along with you family, financially stable and loves you for exactly who you are...... Then why not realize it, except it, and make sure you hold on to her....
PEOPLE tend to pin point one thing that isn't right with a person, acknowledging it as a deal breaker and overlooking the fact the HE OR SHE still has other qualities to consider....... Then most of us go searching for someone else who doesn't have that "PROBLEM" and then we end up running into a whole nother issue.....
THE ART OF RELATIONSHIPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Maybe instead of over analyzing this "person" we should just look at the person for who they really are... There is absolutely no such thing as a perfect person and the sooner we realize this the better.
I know that I've been on that short end of the stick where I was stuck having to repeat those dreadful words of "I DIDN'T KNOW WHAT I HAD UNTIL IT WAS TO LATE" and I honestly want to avoid having to repeat them again......
So Beauties, Guys and Girls be appreciative of what you have and i'm sure you and that person will go far....
KNOW WHAT AND WHO YOU HAVE BEFORE IT'S TO LATE
Because we don't always get a second chance...........
So much of this is true and is still so common, even people who knows this will still go looking for ms/mr right when they had it and didn't know. If we love someone we love them, not for who we want them to become or who we think they can be. It's not about physical beauty but the mind and heart. As you said a person who knowingly accepts your faults and faults and still endeavor to be with you through bad times and heartaches. Someone willing to hold your hand even when you're pulling away, someone who says I will love you forever and a day even if you don't let me, someone who does all you mentioned and more but lacking other things. No one is perfect but but love is love and love should conquer all. With love everything becomes possible, it is easy walk away but it takes a strong heart to love through the pain. When we recognize love, we need to hold on to it and never let go.
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